Let’s be completely honest. After all, in this forum we are among ourselves and can call a spade a spade. If you take off your ideological glasses, there is very little evidence that men and women are the same. On the contrary, experience shows that men tend to be strong givers, while women are more on the receiving end. This is an insight that a glance at anatomy teaches us.
So let’s take a decidedly revealing look at what constitutes a woman’s physical center. From a functional point of view, a woman has a significantly wider pelvis than a man. Nature has quite practical reasons for this, because if there is more space between the thighs, a growing child also has more living space and it is at least easier for the woman to push it out of herself once pregnancy is complete. This function is also supported by the fact that the woman can spread her legs considerably wider than a man would ever be able to. You only have to look at a few yoga exercises to realize the extent to which a woman can bend her body if she practices a little.
But that’s just the practical side and proof that there are good reasons why women have developed significantly differently from men, at least in certain aspects.
We men are the origin of every child that a woman gives birth to. But we are actually only marginally interested in the processes involved. However, we find the anatomical features that make a woman a woman extremely attractive and can rarely resist the sight of a particularly excellently shaped female body.
In the past, women wore skirts and men wore pants. However, women have realized that trousers are clearly the more practical form of clothing and have increasingly moved closer to the male role model, at least in their everyday clothing style. Nevertheless, a man instinctively knows whether he is dealing with a woman when, for example, he is walking behind someone in the pedestrian zone who is wearing the ubiquitous jeans that everyone wears today. The reason for this is the aforementioned wider pelvis and the significantly larger ass associated with it. A pronounced female bottom is simply a sight that magnetically attracts male attention. Even on an extremely slim girl with a rather boyish figure, the pelvis is the widest part of the body. No matter how small and inconspicuous her bottom may be, a man will know at second glance at the latest whether there is a cunt or a cock in those jeans.
Anyone who takes a closer look at the subject will recognize another anatomical difference: If a man adopts an upright posture, his spine is largely straight and his buttocks do not deviate significantly from this line. A woman’s spine, on the other hand, is slightly curved and points slightly backwards towards the pelvis. Very few men are aware of this, but it is the reason why a woman’s buttocks not only tend to be larger than a man’s. They also look much fuller, appearing more voluminous. They also appear much fuller, rounder, more pronounced, in other words more feminine. And they create exactly the kind of image that we find extremely stimulating.
Why we men experience a noticeable stiffening in our pants whenever we see a beautiful female backside can hardly be explained logically. After all, from a purely functional point of view, it’s just a part of the body that’s there for sitting and shitting. But sexuality has always defied any logical explanation. After all, a woman’s breasts are nothing more than an udder and serve to provide her offspring with the right nourishment, at least in the early stages. Nevertheless, some men like their tits to be as big as possible and enjoy sucking on them. Others prefer small tits, especially if they are equipped with hard buds that rise up like little towers when aroused. And then there are men who are particularly attracted to girls who don’t have much more to offer than two pointed cones that cheekily poke through the fabric of tight T-shirts.
But back to the topic. For a man, his cock is the main focus of sexual desire. At rest, it’s more of a poor little sausage that’s only good for peeing at best. However, if his eyes discover attractive female forms, he reacts immediately without his owner having the slightest influence. This is why malicious women like to claim that men think primarily with their tails. But the reality is of course far more complex.
However, the male penis protruding steeply from the body speaks a pretty clear language. It is hard and unyielding. It pushes forward, wants to thrust and penetrate. It has something aggressive, in some situations even threatening about it, which can arouse expectations, but can also trigger fear. In any case, it is obvious that the man has the active role when it comes to sex. The man decides what will happen. He penetrates. He pushes. He alone decides whether it develops into a tender exchange of feelings or whether violent, urgent, aggressive sex is the order of the day. Only a man can take a woman against her will. And only he feels pleasure, even if for most men today it’s just a mind game.
A woman can seduce a man. She can’t rape him. If he doesn’t feel like it, then his cock won’t want it either and that’s the end of the matter. She simply has no way of taking what she wants by force. She is on the receiving end. She can dress seductively to attract his attention. She can also undress to turn him on. She can beg him. But in the end, he alone decides whether she is successful. He decides what to do and how to do it. He has the cock and she can’t do much more than offer him the right orifices.
Of course, a woman can exert a certain amount of power over a man. She can make him economically dependent. But that only works as long as he accepts this dependency. She can foist a child on him to make a separation really expensive. But he can avoid that too. She can rip him off and blackmail him emotionally because he is madly in love with her. But a man’s love has a lot to do with her desirability and sooner or later there won’t be much of that left. So her power has narrow limits and they all have to do with the man’s willingness to go along with it.
You must never forget that: He is the active part in the whole game and he has what it takes to stay active into old age. She, on the other hand, only has a short period of time in which she can turn a man on. Her attractiveness is at its peak when she is young and has finally faded by the time she is forty. Inevitably. Forever. Without her being able to do anything about it. So we’re talking about around twenty years here and a woman has to hurry the hell up to find a cock that’s ready to fuck her to the highest heights of pleasure.
And all she can do is get into position. She can pull her legs up and spread them wide so that he can help himself. Or she can kneel in front of him and stick her bottom out at him so that he can choose which of her two openings he wants the most. If she’s lucky, he’ll choose the one that’s already dripping wet and waiting for his penetration. If she is unlucky, he takes the one that is actually tightly closed and has to be opened with a little force. Here, too, it is he who has the choice and makes the decision. She can evade him if he chooses the „wrong“ opening. But then she will have to look for another cock and the whole seduction ritual will have to start all over again.
There is another aspect to the matter of taking and giving. A man will appreciate it when she kneels in front of him and takes his cock in her mouth. It gives him a good feeling to be sucked and licked by her. It fills him with superiority to watch from above as her lips close around his phallus. And he has the power to pour himself into her mouth instead of making sure that she gets something out of it herself. A blowjob does nothing for her, but a lot for him. It is a sign of her humility, her submissiveness, her willingness to bend to his will and his wishes. He can reward her for it and give his stiff cock its due. But he doesn’t have to.
The reverse is not much different. The center of the female sexual organ is actually just an inconspicuous opening in the body. Everything else that makes up her vagina, on the other hand, serves solely to trigger feelings of pleasure. Labia, labia and clitoris react sensitively to every touch, regardless of whether her own fingers or his lips and tongue are involved. The same principle applies here too: he can lick and suck on her, but he himself gets nothing out of it. It is merely a concession if he drives her to orgasm. But while she goes completely empty-handed when he comes in her mouth, he only starts after he has satisfied her orally. Because his cock is still stiff and is just waiting to finally penetrate her depths until he has unloaded.
So it should be pretty clear who takes and who is taken here. And precisely this indication from nature is more than an indication of who is up and who is down, who is in charge and who has to submit, who has the advantage and who is left behind in case of doubt.